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Breaking Old Patterns: From Setbacks to Growth
There have been countless moments in my recovery when I’ve felt stuck, as though I were trapped in an endless loop, going around in circles. I’d catch myself slipping into the same familiar patterns, repeating old habits, and reacting to the same triggers that once held me captive. It was frustrating, even disheartening at times, to see myself standing on the brink of these cycles yet again. But something shifted when I realized the significance of what was happening. I could see those patterns. I could recognize the old habits and triggers. With that awareness, I discovered something even more powerful: I had the tools and the ability to break…
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Practical guide How to Thrive in Recovery
How-To From Surviving to Thriving Professional SupportI’ve found that working with qualified professionals is incredibly helpful. Whether I’m exploring therapy approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), or trauma-informed counseling, having a trained guide allows me to process my emotions in a safe environment. In addition, staying consistent with my medical or addiction care team helps me monitor my progress and tailor my treatment plan when needed. Peer Support GroupsConnecting with others who share similar experiences has been invaluable. In these groups, I feel both validated and understood, which helps to reduce isolation. Listening to others’ journeys and sharing my own struggles and triumphs also…
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How Resentment Fuels Addiction: How to Overcome It
Resentment is the number one offender, wreaking havoc on the lives of those struggling with substance use and addictive behaviors. When you let myself get stuck in resentment, the chances of recovering from addiction diminish significantly. Resentment often feels like a wave of anger, bitterness, or dissatisfaction when we believe we’ve been wronged, treated unfairly, or disrespected. This emotion usually stems from a perceived injustice or insult, sometimes something as small as a look, and it has a way of lingering, festering over time. The more we hold onto it, the more it fuels negative feelings toward the person or situation we believe caused my pain. Recognizing this pattern is…
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Unlock the Healing Power of Recovery: Transform Your Life Today
Courage to Heal : My Transitioning from addiction and receiving a cancer diagnosis to becoming an adventurer Transitioning from addiction and receiving a cancer diagnosis to becoming an adventurer has been an extraordinary and deeply transformative journey for me. It’s a path filled with overcoming both physical and mental challenges while embracing a new way of living, focused on exploration, freedom, and personal growth. Here’s how I navigated such a profound shift: This transformation has been nothing short of heroic. By staying committed to my health, well-being, and adventurous spirit, I’ve realized that life can be truly lived, and it’s filled with possibilities I once couldn’t have imagined. Sometimes, the…
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Proving Life in Recovery is Powerful and Inspiring
“Recovery: The Courage to Heal” A powerful journey of resilience and transformation, where every step forward is a testament to strength, determination, and the unwavering belief in a brighter tomorrow. On September 28th, 2024, at the age of 76 and with 43 years of being clean and sober, I took the leap of a lifetime – skydiving from 15,000 feet. This thrilling experience was not only a personal triumph, but also a way to support a cancer charity, demonstrating that life in recovery is not just possible, but truly incredible. Recovery has given me the strength and courage to take on challenges I never thought possible, and this jump symbolizes…
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Toxic Dynamics: How to Recognize and Address Harmful Relationships
Before you embark on any adventure, building or joining the right team is the foundation for success. Reflecting on my past, I’ve come to realize that, just as there are plants and bugs that harm their environment, there are people who exhibit toxic behaviours. I’ve learned that I can’t always judge or point the finger; from 17yrs to 33yrs I was extremely Toxic, as were those I surrounded myself with. Instead, I must accept these challenges and confront them head-on with a clear mind and a steady heart. Whenever I embark on an adventure, whether it’s an extreme challenge or a more everyday experience—it’s essential that I can trust and…
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Recovery is Inspirational : Best way to Triumph
“Recovery is Inspirational, and Inspiration is Contagious” captures the transformative power of personal growth and resilience When someone goes through a journey of recovery—whether it’s from illness, addiction, trauma, or any challenge—their strength can inspire others. That inspiration, in turn, spreads like a positive force, motivating those around them to pursue their own paths of healing, self-improvement and change. It’s a reminder that one person’s courage and determination can ripple outward, creating a chain reaction of hope and encouragement. This contagious inspiration helps build a supportive community where everyone lifts each other up, reinforcing the idea that no one is truly alone on their journey. My recent experience at the…
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Insect / Bug Warning Signals To Watch when ‘Foraging’
When foraging for edible insects / Bugs, it’s essential to confidently and accurately identify what you’re collecting. If you’re unsure about the Bug’s identity, it’s best to avoid eating it altogether. Always confirm the species through multiple reliable sources before consumption. Keep in mind that ingesting anything toxic can be highly dangerous, so it’s vital to exercise caution and prioritize safety. Bugs Warning Signals Insects, worms, grubs, beetles and termites are a good source of protein…But, as a general rule, avoid – A Few Examples of Nasty Bugs: **Ask your local guide if a ‘Bug’ is edible…BEFORE popping it into your mouth #livealifetodiefor #MoreThanMyPast #itsrogerx **I am excited to share the…
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From Crime, Addiction then Cancer To Full Recovery: A Triumph of Resilience
Hello, I’m Roger Davies, and I’d like to share a bit about my journey—one that has taken me from the depths of addiction to the highest peaks of adventure, both literally and metaphorically. My life has been filled with incredible highs and devastating lows, but the thread that runs through it all is resilience, strength, and an unwavering commitment to living fully. If you’re interested in nonfiction books about addiction, I want to share not only my story but how that story has been transformed into a book that could offer you—or someone you know—hope and inspiration. A Difficult Beginning: Crime, Addiction, and Recovery The early chapters of my life…
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Endurance Mindset: How To Overcome Mental Challenges
Endurance and extreme trekking events test not just your physical limits but also your mental resilience. Success in these challenges often hinges more on mindset than on physical strength alone. Two powerful examples highlighting the crucial need for My Personal Mental Resilience > Hearing the most Feared Words in Ocean Rowing – Man Overboard When the Doctor gave me the dreaded diagnosis- Cancer Here’s how to cultivate a mindset that will carry you through the toughest moments on the trail and through life. 1. Set Clear Goals and Purpose Understand why you’re undertaking this challenge. Whether it’s for personal growth, to conquer a fear, or for the love of nature,…